Ex-boyfriends/Ex-Girlfriends.

Being friends with an Ex. . . does it work?

I Should Be Blind.

Welp, American Idol announced this season's top 13 finalists. One of them being Scott MacIntyre, a charming blind guy.

(Photo found on http://www.flickr.com/photos/techiemommie/3198639248/)

Sigh. It breaks my heart to say it. Okay, no, it actually doesn't. Straight up, he can sing as good as he can see. I can't help but ask myself, what's it all about, Alfie?

Was it out of pity, guilt, or not wanting to feel bad if he was kicked off that he's still on? You know the judges were like, "if we don't put this fool on the show, we'll get sh*t from America and our mothers."

To be honest, peeps, I can't say that I wouldn't do the same thing. I'm all about not going to bed feeling guilty. The fool can't see and he has the courage to come on American Idol, one of the most judgmental and scariest shows to be on (after True Beauty and The Bachelor). I'd look at Scott and give him the whole, "you're going to Hollywood" line and leave it to America to vote him off. I don't want the guilt when I go to the grave that I was the one who took a vision impaired man's dream away.

Maybe because we know, deep down, that he can see us. . . if we're willing to look.

The Lakers - Volunteer.

So, I had a great time yesterday. Got some sun at the Riviera Country Club in Pacific Palisades and offered my time for a good cause.

Being young and willing to give your free time has its perks.

Me and the Laker Gurls.

Me and Sun Yue

Me and Phil Jackson

Me and L.A.'s main Wheather Girl

Me and Luke Walton

Me and Kobe Bryant

Me and Sasha Vujacic

Me and Lamar Odom

Me and Andrew Bynum

Me and Pau Gasol

Me and Guy from Talk Soup (Joel McHale)

Me and A few Lakers Championship Trophies

Me and James Worthy

Me and Kenny Lofton (famous baseball player)

I had a great time!

Volunteering is a great way to meet peeps and network. If you're single and young, consider joining popular organizations and giving your time to charity events. You'll meet folks and have fun as well.

Date Time.

Gotz A date tomorrow night. The pen will have to be put down for a second!

So, I'm a little nervous, peeps. Why? Because I'm used to being the one who is in control. The one who asks out a woman and always feels like I have a handle of my feelings. With this situation, she's older (my weakness) and very assertive. When women get this way, I get shy. Mucho.

Here's another thang. She likes me. She isn't playing games (which is what I'm used to). She's acting like she likes me without any manipulation or confusion. It's refreshing, but also something new...something I'm not used to in my life.

It's like being put in an ocean at night and told to swim back home. If I can't see home, how do I get there?

You feel me, right? We all get nervous sometimes. I blush at least once a week, and that's okay. This date will be nice. Yeah, there are risks, like:

1) She may be crazy.
2) She may be crazy.
3) She may be crazy.

But, you know what, that's what life's all about. We're all imperfect in some way...some way more than others!

Announcement!

And now introducing, Katie Couric...

The highest payed lesbian in the world!

Dating - Weaves Ain't So Bad.

Aight, so get this. A hair weave saved the life of a twenty year old woman.

That's right, peeps. Apparently, the police got a phone call that gunshots had been fired outside of a Kansas City market late at night, and they arrived to find homegirl still on the scene. She had been shot at, and a bullet was fired at her head, ending up getting stuck in the hair weave she was wearing. A police officer said the weave stopped the bullet and saved her life.

Take a lookie:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUoiKMxSUCw


So, for those of you men and women who immediately rule out any potential love interests because of a wig or fake hair piece -- think twice.

That thang may save your life.

Brad or Maher?

So, mucho peeps keep sayin' Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer stole the spotlight at the Oscars.

QUESTION: Who looked better/hotter/sexier -- Brad Pitt/Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Aniston and whateva his name is?


Let's compare, shall we?


Now Brad and Angie:

Let's be real, it doesn't really matter who looks better, which is subjective.

What matters is if they are happy with each other or not. Who really knows, but these two couples are in a relationship.

I often wonder why peeps feel it is our place to judge whether or not two individuals should be together. Or, assuming how they feel in terms of the other person.

Relationships are hard. Love is tough. And, sometimes so is moving on. Jennifer Aniston could be hurting still from the marriage to Brad Pitt. Sure.

They were married for eight years. But, she could also be totally fine with their separation and simply want others to stay out of her business.

But, let's be frank, Brad and Angie look waaaaay better.